Look at Mama

“Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith…consider Him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” Hebrews 12:2-3

Since my two-year-old boy is very active and easily distracted, I often find myself struggling to get his attention. One thing that really helps me to get his attention is to grab his face and simultaneously say (in a soft, sweet voice) “Look at mama.” In response, he will usually stop what he is doing and look at me right away. (He is usually eager to hear what I have to say, as if he knows its significance and the power of the words.)

Once I can get him to look at me, and our eyes meet, it’s as if his whole self relaxes – he is still, calm, and focused. Even if he is in the middle of throwing a fit, looking into my eyes will usually calm him down (presumably because he knows how much I love him and that I want whatever is best for him). But the key is that he first has to LISTEN to me say “look at mama” and then he has to OBEY by intentionally fixing his gaze on me.

This relationship dynamic between a mother and a son often reminds me of my own walk with the Lord. How often are my emotions out of control and Jesus is whispering in a soft, sweet voice “Look at me?” Sometimes I respond, but most of the time I don’t. But wow, what if I were to look at Him each time that He bids me to come? Can you imagine the difference that would make in my life? In your life?

In Matthew 18:3 Jesus says, “Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.” Perhaps in this verse Jesus is asking us to become as trusting and responsive as a little child in our relationships with Him.

My challenge to you today: next time when you’re feeling frustrated or defeated, humble yourself as a child and fix your gaze immediately on Jesus. In response, Jesus promises “As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you.” (Isaiah 66:13).